Besides, then I'd have to go out and get him something.

I just flat out told him that it's just not necessary whatsoever, in these early stages, to be exchanging gifts. Here are some examples of what's going on, I'd welcome your feedback please:ġ) After our second time talking on the phone, he mentioned that 'now' he'd have one more Xmas gift to buy (meaning, one for me). But, maybe I'm just so used to jerks that his 'niceness' seems so much more magnified? That's cool, we're on the same wavelength in this regard but if his ?clinginess at this early stage of the game is any indication of how ?dependent he is, this is not going to work. He's made it clear that he's looking for a serious relationship, and wants very much to find the 'right person' for him and settle down again. Too busy out with her girl friends, at the bars and that kind of thing. Apparently his ex wife cheated on him, nearly shopped them into debt and basically just wasn't very mature. History on him: He's been divorced for 2 yrs, no kids. We're to meet for the first time tomorrow night and he's making such a big deal about it that instead of looking forward to meeting, I'm almost started to dread it, and half consider calling it off. Um, almost like he's smothering me already. He seems like a really nice guy, but almost too nice. We'd actually briefly chatted over a year ago, but I wasn't interested then for different reasons. I met a guy my age online about a week ago.

Comin out strong dating